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December 2018

Crazy(less) of Advent

By |2018-11-28T19:00:03+00:00December 3rd, 2018|Alvin Lau|

The season of Advent is here. For some, it’s a month-long celebration. For many, it’s a season of stress. For others, some deep pain is associated with this time of year. Renee Embree (Director of Youth and Family Ministries with the Canadian Baptists of Atlantic Canada) recently blogged on “How to help parents have less 'crazy' this advent & Christmas season” (http://cbacyf.ca/oneneighbourhood/2018/11/22/how-to-help-parents-have-less-crazy-this-advent-amp-christmas-season). Here are some specific things to note: Discuss

November 2018

Renegotiating Faith (part 3)

By |2018-11-23T20:02:01+00:00November 26th, 2018|Alvin Lau|

This is part 3 of 3 in a reflection series on Renegotiating Faith. (See Part 1 and Part 2.) -------------- The Fear Of Missing Out (FOMO), the Fear of Not Being Amazing (FNBA), and the Fear Of Passionless Monotony (FOPM) press in on young adults ever more as they approach age 30, which, for many, marks the limit of emerging adulthood and a forced entry into adulthood. (p.12-13) Many Millennials

Volunteer Care

By |2018-11-17T16:54:55+00:00November 19th, 2018|Alvin Lau|

How do you care for your volunteers? They give their time, energy and other resources to minister to this next generation alongside you. How do you show your appreciation? Many times, volunteers do not feel valued because they aren’t receiving appreciation in ways that makes sense to them. One way is to understand their love language. While love languages are usually discussed in the context of marriage, its principles can

Alvin’s Reflections on Reignite 2018

By |2018-11-10T00:56:36+00:00November 10th, 2018|Alvin Lau|

Last week, a group of CBOQ pastors (including some children, family and youth pastors) gathered at the Nottawasaga Inn and Resort for the Reignite Conference. This year featured Dwight Friesen, author of The New Parish, sharing his insights on the local church. We engaged in three days of discussions around the purpose of the local parish and how well we interact with our neighbourhood. There were three questions/ideas that stood

October 2018

What vs How in Youth Ministry Programming?

By |2018-10-26T21:42:54+00:00October 29th, 2018|Alvin Lau|

In youth ministry, many of us tend to focus on the content of teaching. Looking at a year-long calendar, many youth leaders try to pack in as much content and topics they can think of. Is that the best approach? For me (Alvin), I wonder if there is a significant shift in our youth ministry programming. Since the birth of the church, one of the primary drives was to share

How do you reach into your community?

By |2018-10-16T21:09:51+00:00October 22nd, 2018|Alvin Lau, youth ministry thoughts|

How do you reach your community with the person and message of Jesus? After all, that’s the primary reason why the church exists: to go and make disciples of all nations. What are ways to do that? There are many ways a church can reach into a community. Here are a few considerations:   Where does the neighbourhood gather? Some communities already have established times when people gather. It could

Renegotiating Faith (part 2)

By |2018-10-12T14:46:08+00:00October 15th, 2018|Alvin Lau, youth ministry thoughts|

We continue looking at some observations Renegotiating Faith highlighted its report. (Click here for Part One.) Young adults who went straight into postsecondary studies fared worse on all our measures of religious persistence than those who had taken a gap year. (p.11) I (Alvin) remember that in high school the big push was to graduate and go straight on to university. A gap year was seen as a form of

How do I register for Avalanche or Blizzard 2019?

By |2018-10-05T22:41:40+00:00October 5th, 2018|Alvin Lau|

The registration process is a bit different this year. Download the promotional flyer and the registration package at cboqyouth.ca/avalanche or cboqyouth.ca/blizzard (select the appropriate weekend).   Once you have an idea of the number of students and leaders planning to attend, register online. Avalanche: cboqyouth.ca/avalanche2019 Blizzard 1: cboqyouth.ca/blizzard12019 Blizzard 2: cboqyouth.ca/blizzard22019 You’ll receive an automated reply with a copy of your registration. You’ll also receive an email from Alvin within

September 2018

Preparing Your Grads

By |2018-09-27T22:37:39+00:00September 30th, 2018|Alvin Lau|

One month has already passed in this school year. Your high school grads are only nine months away from graduation. How are you supporting them in their transition to emerging adulthood? Renegotiating Faith highlighted that home church youth groups and mentors are key in the successful shift into emerging adulthood. Here is one way for you to help your grads. On June 1, 2019, we along with Power 2 Change,

Big Events in the Rhythm of Youth Ministry

By |2018-09-20T13:40:38+00:00September 20th, 2018|Alvin Lau|

Each year, there are probably one (or a few) big events everyone looks forward to, whether it’s a retreat, a compassion experience, or that annual big-bash Christmas dinner. Those big events can be monumental and life-changing…if they’re used well. One person suggested to me that big events in youth ministry are giant “sledgehammer” moments where there is potential for huge impact in students’ lives. There are a variety of reasons

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